Thursday, October 1, 2009

a trip to the outer banks







The more I travel and sight see, I grow in my appreciation of two things: One, I can't help but appreciate the beauty of God's creation. He is far and away the most masterful, creative, imaginative, thoughtful, brilliant Creator. Two, I become more convinced that I live in the most beautiful state in America. North Carolina's bookends are the majestic, alluring Appalachian mountains in the west whose color, in a few weeks, will be saturated with brilliant hues of gold, red, orange, yellow, green, amber, etc. and the mesmerizing, robust waters of the Atlantic in the east. And in between you find some of the most beautiful landscapes--sand hills, forests, pastures, farmland, plains, foothills--along with lakes, rivers, creeks, swamps and streams. I especially love to stumble upon the old farmhouses "in the middle of nowhere" with tin roofs, fencing in need of new paint, and woodsheds and wash houses out back. They take me back to my childhood on my grandparents' farm in the Uwharrie Mountains. But that is another blog for another day.

For the Brewers, the end of September and the beginning of October was spent in the Outer Banks. This was my children's first trip to "OBX", and I must say that this historic, well-known part of our state never disappoints. This part of our coast is rich in history, from being the home of the country's very first British colony, to a safe haven for slaves after the Civil War, to the infamous "Graveyard of the Atlantic", to the place where German submarines stalked American shores during World War II, to the place where the first airplane actually flew. The history alone is enough to lure you there.

But the Outer Banks have so much more to offer. The landscape is breathtaking. Watching the sunset at Jockey's Ridge (the largest Sand dunes on the East Coast), driving along miles of untouched beaches, visiting lighthouses that stand proudly along the shores, climbing the steps of the tallest brick lighthouse in America (Cape Hatteras Light House), driving across the Pamlico and Roanoke Sounds and the Alligator River, walking through the beautiful forests where the "Lost Colony" was once established, and watching ocean creatures swim under the pier off of our hotel were only highlights of the beauty we enjoyed on this trip.

This was truly one of our all time favorite family trips. Each of us loved the Outer Banks for different reasons.

For Paul, his favorite part of the trip was probably visiting The Wright Brothers Museum. Even though we had both been there before, we both had goosebumps as we re-read the history of the first flight and walked the trail that they blazed with that first flight. Our favorite quote was from one of the brothers who said, "Isn't it astonishing that all these secrets have been preserved for so many years just so we could discover them!" It reminded me of the Scripture from Daniel, "For there is a God who reveals secrets" and from a quote in the Shack when Sarayu tells Mac that God has hidden things from us because he knows the joy we experience in seeking and discovering.

As soon as we arrived at the Wright Brothers Memorial, we were able to fly handmade kites with the park rangers. About twenty families joined us and the rangers as we spread across the grass that now covers that famous landmark and released those trash bag kites into the wind! Even though the kites were made of brown trash bags, it was a beautiful site! Then, private planes began to land at the landing strip next to us, and it really brought home to us the evolution of flight--from kites to planes. What an amazing invention God allowed those Wright boys to discover!

Anderson's favorite part of the trip was the evening that he and his dad went fishing on Kitty Hawk Pier. Unbeknownst to them, the blues were running, and Anderson and Paul, along with their fellow fishermen, began to reel in fish after fish after fish. It was truly an exciting and unexpected experience. I feel like God just directed the fish under the pier that evening just for my little boy, like he did for his disciples when he told them to cast their nets to the other side of the boat and they almost caught more fish than they could handle. Anderson and Paul ended up giving their fish to some of their new fishing buddies on the pier who were happy to take them home to eat.

Bennett probably loved almost everything about the trip. He was all smiles running up and down the sand dunes at Jockey's Ridge. He was deliriously happy just riding the elevator (which he calls a "yemenator", a combination of his word for lemonade and elevator). He also loved frolicking with his brother and dad at Bodie Island Lighthouse, playing in the arcade at a restaurant we visited near Cape Hatteras Light House, and eating cookies each night that were free in our hotel lobby.

I loved everything about our trip, but each moment really does have a special significance to me. When Anderson and I walked the stairs to the top of Cape Hatteras Light House, I was a bit teary eyed because the first time I had made that climb all I could think about was how much I wished he and Paul could be with me (this was P.B.--pre-Bennett). Anderson has acquired a fear of heights, so he was happy to keep his back against the lighthouse and preferred not to move towards the railings, but that was fine by me. We still stood there and took in the view. There really are not adequate words in the English language to describe that view.

Other highlights for me were just driving down that beautiful stretch of the Croatan Highway from Kitty Hawk to Hatteras, watching my boys play video games in the arcade at a mom-and-pop pizza joint near the lighthouse, running by myself in the morning down the streets of Kitty Hawk, grabbing Starbucks and breakfast for the boys after my run, seeing my first giant stingray in the wild floating gingerly under the pier (which, incidently, inspired Anderson to do his ocean animal report on stingrays), snuggling Bennett while Anderson and Paul fished that night, eating Duck Donuts, sitting beside the Wright Brothers Memorial and taking in the view of both the Atlantic Ocean and the Roanoke Sound, going to Fort Raleigh and walking on the same soil as the members of the Lost Colony, going backstage where the play "The Lost Colony" is performed, going to the North Carolina Aquarium at Roanoke and watching the boys play with stingrays and gawk at the sharks, and even doing school work with Anderson in the hotel lobby while Bennett napped in the room.

I am so thankful that we have chosen to keep Anderson home with us this year and that we are enjoying so many adventures with both of our boys as a result. I am more aware now of this truth than I ever have been: Time is always moving. No force of man can stop it. The only power we have is the power of choice--we can choose to seize each moment we are given and not allow time to steal any more from us than necessary. I thank God that He has given us both the opportunity and the wisdom to seize these moments.

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